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at least give it a go — and generally be slow, rather than fast to react, considerate of all positions and constituencies rather than impulsive. Unless there is a fight breaking out, best not to act on blind instinct.
at least give it a go — and generally be slow, rather than fast to react, considerate of all positions and constituencies rather than impulsive. Unless there is a fight breaking out, best not to act on blind instinct.


Being ''instinctively'' empathetic is not necessarily “kind”, nor fair, equitable or just. Empathy comes from the monkey brain. It doesn’t take time to reflect on with whom one should empathise: it just does it, favouring kin, familiarity, tribe and self-identity.  
Being ''instinctively'' empathetic is not necessarily “kind”, nor fair, equitable or just. Empathy comes from the monkey brain. It doesn’t take time to consider with ''whom'' one should empathise: it just does it, favouring kin, familiarity, tribe and self-identity.  Those people you most instinctively identify with.


Empathetic responses reinforce our own values and existing worldview. It shoots without asking questions.
Empathetic responses reinforce our own values and existing worldview. Empathy shoots without asking questions.


===Empathy is divisive. Compassion is unifying.===
===Empathy is divisive. Compassion is unifying.===