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===Empathy is inert. Compassion is active.===
===Empathy is inert. Compassion is active.===
Empathy is to join in, to wallow in someone else’s problem, to colonise it, without necessarily doing anything to alleviate it. Alleviating the problem — if there is a problem — brings the need for empathy to an end, so the truly committed empathist ''does not want the problem to end'', for that way lies the end of empathy.
Empathy is to join in, to immerse yourself in someone else’s problem: to ''colonise'' it without necessarily doing anything to ''alleviate'' it.  
 
Alleviating a problem — if there is a problem — satisfies the need for empathy. So the truly committed empathist ''does not want the problem to end'', for that way lies the end of empathy.


We see this in a lot of “focus groups”. When the battle has been won, who wants to pack up the banners and go home?
We see this in a lot of “focus groups”. When the battle has been won, who wants to pack up the banners and go home?